Understanding the Process of Kundli matching: Ashtakoot Guna Milan

The process of Match making for a successful long-term relationship had to be an integral part of Indian culture. The goal for an Indian matchmaking process is to achieve a healthy relationship, a happy married life and a blissful family life.

Let's face it. We all are born different, we have a different kundli and therefore a different horoscope. But for a successful marriage, there are many things which should work out well between bride and groom. And so comes the concept of compatibility analysis. Life is a long journey and couples are going to live together at different stages of life. To ensure they live comfortably at every stage of life, match making must consider every aspect of married life. To solve this prime problem and help an astrologer, Indian astrology has, over time, developed a process of Kundli matching.

What is Kundli matching?

The marriage compatibility analysis when done with the assistance of Vedic astrology is called Kundli matching.

The Kundli matching at its essence is not matching of kundlis or birth charts. We all are born different, but some people will go well together. And some people will cause a disaster when are made to live together. So the basic idea of compatibility analysis and Kundli matching is to identify who will go well together and lead a happy married life. While which two kinds of people when brought together will face a lot of trouble in leading a good relationship.

Understanding a person takes time and identifying whether you are happy with that person can take even more time. But with the aid of Kundli matching, we can get those signals before committing to a relationship.

Kundli matching and Kundali matching are synonyms. Kundali matching is just another way of saying the same things. Kundali matching has its root in the South Indian way of speaking Kundli. While Kundli matching is more of a North Indian way of speaking the same root words.

What is Horoscope Matching?

The term Horoscope matching serves the same purpose served by Kundali matching. It is the same thing which is to check compatibility score, for a successful marriage, with an aid of Vedic astrology.

If we go by the standard definition for the word Horoscope. It means, "Horoscope is a statement about what is going to happen to a person in the future, based on the position of the stars and planets when he/she was born." It is of no use and serves no purpose to match two statements of the forecast of Bride and Groom.

It is just a fact that the term Horoscope matching is being heavily used, along with the term Kundli matching, by popular Indian astrology websites. For the purpose of matching user intent who search for online horoscope matching. The process of matching horoscopes is not different from the process of Kundli matching if we are talking about it in the context of Vedic astrology.

Need for Kundli matching

We all aspire to a happy love life along with a long term commitment. This is what we say, "growing old together". In short, we want our boat to sail in all weathers. Adding to it, we also want our journey to be with minimum struggles and maximum opportunities. May it be running a home or raising children.

Kundli matching if implemented correctly can help couples to know the stronger areas of their relationship. And an astrologer can also help them on how to take care of the weaker areas of the married life. Just as every person is unique, every relationship is unique as well. Kundli matching is not a hack for a successful marriage, it also helps you understand your marriage better. Once you know what kind of relationship you are in. You can make better decisions about your marital life. And if you know it before your marriage, it can even help in a good choice of partner. This helps both the bride and the groom in the longer run.

Compatibility Analysis

May it be a love marriage, which is a self-choice marriage where the bride or groom chooses their respective partners on their own. Or it is an arranged marriage where the choice of partner is made by parents, family or a third person. Compatibility has a role to play. Matching making is incomplete without a proper compatibility analysis. The topic of Compatibility in a broad topic in itself. It includes so many areas like determining the type of person, emotional compatibility, mental compatibility and sexual compatibility. All this works together to give a proper marriage-matching.

The process of Kundli matching involves different tasks like Gun Milan, Mangal dosha analysis and understanding of mutual love and attraction

Understanding compatibility with Ashtakoot Gun Milan

The 36 points based matchmaking is called Guna Milan or Gun Milan. The Koots are the factors based on which compatibility points out of a total of 36 points are given to a couple. The general idea is greater the number of points scored by a couple, the better it is for a successful marital life.

Compatibility analysis goes deeper than obtaining a general Kundli match of the zodiac sign.

Koots are the key factors in compatibility analysis. The number and type of factors taken into consideration during a matchmaking process tell us about the methodology of Kundli matching.

There are two methods for the Kundli matching process. The eight factor-based method of Kundli matching is called Ashtakoot Gun Milan. And the ten factor-based method of Kundali matching is known as Dashakoot Gun Milan. And this both Gun Milans are also known as Melpak. Melpak is the ratio of kundali matching's obtained points. For example, if 12 points out of 36 points are obtained. Melpak is 12/36.

Out of two, Ashtakoot Guna Milan and Dashakoot Guna Milan, below are some brief details about Ashkoot Guna Milan.

Ashtakoot Guna Milan is an eight-factor process of marriage-matching. Based on these eight factors, the kundli of a boy and a girl is matched at eight different levels. These eight different levels are Varna matching, Vashya matching, Tara matching, Yoni matching, Graha Maitri, Gana matching, Bhakoot matching and Nadi matching. The details of these eight factors are listed below.

Compatibility level (Koot) Points distribution Type
Varna matching 1 Mental compatibility - Attitude & mental capacity
Vashya matching 2 Mental compatibility - Control
Tara matching 3 Mental compatibility - Friendship
Yoni matching 4 Sexual compatibility - Desire
Graha Maitri 5 Emotional compatibility - Friendship
Gana matching 6 Mental compatibility - Behaviour
Bhakoot matching 7 Emotional compatibility - Love and ability to feel for other
Nadi matching 8 Physical compatibility - Tuning of body elements

Every aspect of proper marriage compatibility is taken into consideration with this method of compatibility analysis. Ashtakoot matching is a very popular type of Guna Milan system. It is also popularly known as the 36 point matching system

Out of 36 total points in match making, 7 points are allotted to Bhakoot matching and 8 points are allotted to Nadi matching. Therefore, whenever a couple scores 0 point in Bhakoot matching it is known as Bhakoot dosha. And if a couple score is 0 in Nadi matching then it is known as Nadi dosha. The Nadi matching is given the highest number of points as compared to the other compatibility parameters. So whenever a Nadi dosha occurs it is also widely known as Nadi Mahadosha.

Ashtakoot matching for Guna Milan was earlier known as the job of an expert Astrologer with a good mathematical hold and proper understanding of the subject. But now with the aid of technology, software like Aaps.space's Couple Chemistry can do it with ease and accuracy.

In an astrological way, Varna matching is based on zodiac sign, Vashya matching is also based on zodiac sign (Rashi), Tara matching is based on Nakshatra, Yoni matching also depends on Nakshatra, Graha Maitri and Gana matching go deeper into the analysis of planet and Rashi. And Bhakoot matching and Nadi matching are the deepest levels of analysis.

What is Mangal Dosha?

Mangal Dosh or Manglik Dosha is an additional check for the shared dominance among life partners.

Mangal Dosha occurs when planet Mars is sitting in 1st house, 2nd house, 4th house, 7th house, 8th house or 12th house from Janma Kundli, the birth chart. These same positions of Mars are also checked from Chandra Kundli, which is the Moon chart. An astrologer checks the degree of Mangal dosh in the Kundli of boy and girl. The idea is to achieve the same level of Mangal dosha in the birth charts of Bride and Groom. The same level of Mangal dosha in Bride and Groom denotes an equal level of dominance between both of them. Hence, it is said to give a happy married life.


Life partner from Kundli matching

Can we get a good life partner by Kundli matching?

Short Answer: YES, if we understand what is the real purpose of kundli matching and follow the proper steps of the Kundli matching process, it can benefit us in getting a good life partner.

Long Answer: Matching of Kundli not only focuses on love life but all the areas of the life of a couple. Therefore, whatever score a couple may get from this analysis. There is always a way to lead a happy life.

The couple with a very high score in kundali matching may even find some hard times in their lives. They need to learn to utilise this high score of compatibility by building a strong relationship with the help of core marital life foundations.

And the couple with a low kundli matching score can learn about their natural difference. They can respect the difference and learn establishing a synergy between them for their daily life interactions. This effort can, over time, develop a blissful married life for a couple with a low kundli matching score.

The pleasure of Married life

Finally, we want to draw some attention to the fact that Sukha of marital life or Pleasures of Marriage, though connected to good results from kundli matching, not completely depend on well-matched kundlis. There is a completely different area of Vedic astrology dedicated to it. And to find any detail about, How your post-marriage life will be? also depend on the analysis of your astrological chart, the kundli, form that point of view. All the good and bad of happiness post marriage is the area of 7th house and every other factor related to it. So we want to inform you that analysing anything with the help of Indian astrology requires a high level of expertise. So keep reading from legitimate sources but also understand that it might be not a full story. Once you get the grasp of the full story about your married life or any other area of life. You will understand the Goodwill potentials of Indian astrology.

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Written by Nachiket Patel