When we say a high score in Kundali matching, we mean at least a score of more than 18 points. Since 18 points in the minimum prescribed score to proceed for marriage by many Vedic astrologers.
What happens when points scored in kundali matching are high?
If out of 36 points a couple scoring anything above 22 points can be said as a high score. With a high score in kundali matching, two things are obvious. The first is that there will be very less chances of the occurrence of doshas like Nadi dosha, Bhakoot dosha and Gana dosha. And the second thing is since the kundli matching score has all to do with the natal moon of bride and groom, there is a good chance of optimal sync between a couple.
But even the high marks scored in kundli matching cannot guarantee the smooth functioning of married life. This due to the many shortcomings of our human nature and the most common of them is expectation mismatch.
So the question arises.
How to build a strong relationship with a good kundli matching score?
Follow the essential steps that we have listed below. This will help you to develop your way of building a strong relationship. And if you understood these basics to their core value it will be easy for you in attaining long-lasting harmony in your love life.
Focus on Growing your Relationship
For anything to last in this ever-changing world, it is a necessity to keep growing. People fear changes but many times the growth comes in a face change. A boy and a girl who plan to stay in a relationship for a long period of time need to understand that their relationship will go from different phases. Some phases can be more exciting and more adventurous. While some other phase of life might demand a more careful and more mature approach. Compatibility defiantly helps but this is the approach that makes a great couple and results in happy married life.
The idea of growing a relationship applies to both types of couples, one with an arranged marriage and even those who had a love marriage.
As per our analysis, good points scored in Gana matching and Bhakoot matching will help a lot in growing a relationship.
Bhakoot is the ability of a bride and groom to connect and feel for each other. Bhakoot is not only about general love and friendship. Bhakoot shows the emotional layer of love and good compatibility in this area can give a probable assurance that whenever a bad situation arises in a successful marriage, the couple will at some point even after a fight will feel for each other. This mutual empathy can bring back together. And if their approach to the relationship is good, they will think about it constructively and the relationship will grow stronger for any other time such a situation arises.
A common problem to the Growth of a relationship
The most common problem to the growth of a relationship is when two people start thinking from the point of oneself and the transaction of a relationship is limited to one individual. What happens here is an individual focuses so much on what he is not getting from a relationship or what she is being deprived of in the relationship. No matter how high a kundli matching score you have, this approach is doomed to a failure of the marriage.
Such a problem arises when a bride and a groom has focused only or majorly on consuming a relationship from the early days of a relationship. The good things from a relationship can be addictive as well. Do not forget to think of the other person as well.
We always like to call a relationship between bride and groom to be an organism in its own self. The two people in the marriage, hence are like the organs for that organism. Now just imagine what will happen when two organs of the relationship start to eat each other. The overconsumption of a relationship can be something like that.
A win-win situation for bride and groom
This is the smartest way to obtain bliss in a marriage. A win-win situation is when both parties are equally benefiting from the course of marital life.
Never forget the fact that no matter how deep love it was when things started along, a marriage has to always remain a transaction. A transaction that will last as long as a relationship lasts. Don't take me wrong on this, but it is a known fact that a couple keeps on exchanging many things throughout their life. A smart couple will mutually always make room for the selfless love in between those ever-continuing transactions of a relationship. This happens with two ways mentions ahead.
One is that a couple needs to focus on the "WE" aspect of looking at the thing and not the "I" aspect.
The second is to take the advantage of high levels of scores you have. For example with a good Graha Maitri compatibility in kundli matching work on your friendship bond in marriage. And always remember that you will never want your friend to lose. Your friend losing is you losing with them.
A good yoni matching compatibility can help to cool down some serious conflicts between a bride and a groom. Since yoni matching not only provides good sexual compatibility but also a connection and thankfulness is developed after the intimate closeness of the couple. It is necessary to nourish and nurture the quick fix provided by yoni matching with the help of understanding. The attitude needed for it can be provided by a good Tara matching score and understanding can come from that small factor of Varna matching.
As long as both the life partners keep benefiting from a relationship it is hard for discord to creep in, even if the boy and girl are yet to learn much about the relationship.
Building trust in married life
A relationship is teamwork.
For a happy married life, we need to understand that we are in a team and for that team to work, trust is an essential ingredient.
It is needed to focus on the following things to build up trust.
Trust is not built in a small time. It is required that the bride and groom give some time.
When our words and actions are not aligned we will not be able to build trust. Start it with the small levels but make sure your actions respect what said to your teammate (your life partner) and what you promised them.
Innovate in how you can play life's ups and down with your team and teammate, the life partner. Learn to back your life partner. Sometimes things are not going good for one individual. And this time can even stretch a bit long. They might be going through a bad Dasha period or a bad transit of the planet. As we said these are the phases of life. Remember to back you life partner in those time.
Understand compatibility analysis for your benefit
Now we want to share how most of the people use the kundali matching score and how they implement the kundali matching.
Most people just check the score of a kundli match and get excited if it results in a good score. And if they see a bad score they are anxious about the future of the relationship. They might even seek some remedies or Pooja.
We are not against remedial measures like pooja. In fact, we are in the favour of them. But we need to understand that these kundali matching scores are the numbers of compatibility analysis. There is always a meaning to certain numbers. Most the expert astrologer suggests the score of at least more than 18 points in kundli matching. We need to understand that they want us to have at least half of our marriage compatibility be in proper coordination. It helps a lot.
And our purpose with this article was to make you understand that there are going to be some strong points in the relationship and some weak points as well it is up to us how we manage to work with it.
Conclusion
It will be a wise way for a bride and groom to understand their marriage compatibility and stick to their strong kundli matching factors. They have to compensate with the practices listed above in this article to build a very strong relationship. In Vedic astrology, compatibility analysis gives you the idea of what is in your cup of tea. But a successful marriage and a happy married life demand your contributions as well.
The more you work on your relationship skills, the more your love life gets better and better with a high kundli matching score.
