What is Marriage Compatibility?
Marriage compatibility can mean different things to different people. In general, though, marriage compatibility refers to the ability of a couple to get along and function well together both in and out of the bedroom. This can be determined by things like how well they communicate, their shared interests and values, and how well they handle conflict. If two people are not compatible in these areas, it can lead to tension and arguments which can eventually cause a divorce.
Finding Marriage Compatibility by Date of Birth
As mentioned earlier in the article you will need the following detail of both partners to run a marriage compatibility test.
- Date of Birth of both partners.
- Time of Birth of both of them.
- Birth Place of both the partners.
Note that this marriage compatibility test software is guided by the kundli matching principles of Vedic astrology.
Below is an example of what you will get in results in addition to basic kundli matching results.
Compatibility Breakdown will Help you to understand where both fall short in getting along well.
Then a further deep forecast tells what areas of the relationships are stronger and what needs some attention. No relationship is perfect. A wise move is to compensate the weaker areas of love life with those strong areas and try to make a balance of everything with your partner. It might be different at first (depending on your results) but it would become gradually easier with time.
Venus when placed in the 7th house predictions are made like the spouse will be very beautiful or handsome in looks. A life partner of loving nature is signified. Mars is the planet that is normally predicted negatively when placed in the 7th house. It is said to give a partner of either aggressive or quarrelsome temperament and also some marriage difficulties. Moon is a soft planet as per Vedic astrology so when the moon is placed in the 7th house, it is normally predicted to give nature and qualities similar to it. As a spouse being soft, caring and loving. And also moody just as the moon.
This idea is really good to get started in predicting spouse and marriage with the help of Vedic astrology. But when we want to accurately point down what to consider in predictions and what to not, things starts to become complicated. There also exists a problem of not having any planet at all in the 7th house. Therefore, here comes some advanced aspect of Vedic astrology.
Why Marriage Compatibility Matters?
What people think about compatibility is that they think it is about the sameness or the similarities between two people. Although similarities might be something we like to have with one another, but not speak about compatibility. Then people think that the ability to fit in together or complement each other can make us compatible. But we would say that similarities with each other and complimenting each other, both of these even together don't make for the true essence of compatibility.
The very ancient meaning of compatibility is far more simple to understand. It says lucky are those people whose partner is able to give, what they want in the relationship. This simply boils down to fulfilment in the relationship. And believe it or not even in today's world this fact is far more relevant.
How to make your compatibility score work for you?
The results of compatibility you get from the process above primarily split the whole concept of Marriage compatibility into three major areas.
1.Mental Compatibility 2.Emotional Compatibility and 3.Physical Compatibility.
There are higher chances that even with good kundli matching results you might only score well in any of two areas of compatibility. And this is very normal. Now looking at these three compatibility types you will know the foundations of your relationship with your partner. Sometimes relationships might be strong emotionally and physically. And in some cases, there is good mental compatibility with a sound understanding of each other.
First, understand those three major areas of compatibility...
Emotional Compatibility
Emotional compatibility is the ability to understand and accept someone's emotional state. It can be difficult for some people to understand the emotions of others, but this is not always the case. People can learn how to empathise with others and be more in tune with their feelings.
If you're emotionally compatible with someone, you'll likely have a strong emotional connection, and be able to rely on them during difficult times.
Mental Compatibility
Mental compatibility is the degree to which two people's personalities, temperaments, and ways of thinking align. Mental compatibility is the idea that the people who are most compatible with you are those who have a similar mental makeup to your own. This can be in terms of beliefs, goals, and interests. It may also include things like intelligence level. If two people share similar attitudes toward life then they are likely to enjoy a long-lasting relationship.
Physical Compatibility
Physical compatibility is the ability for two people to successfully engage in sexual intercourse and the general intimacy of the bedroom like the talks we have in bed before going to sleep. Also their desire to find each other sexually attractive.
Physical compatibility is when two people are attracted to each other physically and have a physical connection. This can be through sexual chemistry or just general attractiveness. Physical compatibility is important for many couples as it can lead to a more fulfilling physical relationship.
It also includes the outcomes of physical closeness like what effects a couple make on family, effects on children and what kind of child they raise together.
Further down into the results of your marriage compatibility test, you will find a yet more sophisticated breakdown of the overall compatibility into the following things:
- Friendship and Companionship
- Love life and Intimacy
- Mutual understanding
- Natural Attraction
- Communication
- Dominance
- Good Progeny
- Sex life
With all this information available. If a couple wishes to make their results of marriage compatibility work for them. Then here is one of the many ways, given below, they can approach the relationship from the beginning:
Step 1: Identify which areas (from the 8 given above) have very good compatibility and which have the lowest compatibility.
Step 2: Initially both of you can focus on the stronger areas of your Relationship. Use this strong area to build up a bond.
Step 3: More you invest into it. The stronger the relationship gets.
Step 4: Be aware of the fact that the weaker areas you see in the result are the areas from which most likely any day-to-day conflict or long term disagreement might arise.
Step 5: Whenever a disagreement arises try to give it time and resolve it with the help of things in which both of you are good together (the stronger areas of compatibility).
Step 6: With the time together in a relationship. Both of you will understand the differences where you need to make space for each and those differences might shrink with time as well. But if not then learn to respect each other's space.
Step 7: If you have made a strong bond out of your love relationship. Try to learn about differences and disagreements with each other. This will not prevent fights in the future. But help both of you to at least react better in future.
Step 8: Know that NO relationship is perfect. Not even the relationship of the one who is writing this article. Love your relationship and Respect your partner.